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How to succeed in single meet parent dating and where to start

August 17, 2022 by Annie

Why single meet parent dating is important

There is not much fun in being a single parent. You are torn between your job and your kids. Everything may be even more complicated by your heavy divorce and not having a very good relationship with your ex. Starting to date again may seem an impossible mission. However, you should not think so.

Thousands of other single parents date and build a relationship successfully while you procrastinate. Understandably, it is not easy for a single meet parent, but giving up fully is a bad idea. You should not forget about yourself. Remember that your child must see a happy parent. Only then, he or she will have a good example of how to build a healthy relationship.

Although it seems not very realistic and you want to wait a bit with dating again, there are a few things to consider. You may need to get a magic kick. Everyone is likely to make the same mistakes, so it is better to read the tips below to avoid it.

Dating with kids is not a verdict

If you are a single meet parent, dating someone can be painful. You do not have time for dates, it’s true, but you should realize that raising your kid alone is not the end of your life. Managing your time wisely is not easy but it is possible. It is crucial to understand that:

  • Your life is going on;
  • Kids are not an obstacle to dating;
  • Millions of other people also have children and remarry;
  • You must not devote your time fully to your child;
  • Only happy parents have happy children.

What to consider when dating as a single parent

Choose someone who understands that you have a child Calling you with the words “I’ll pick you up in 30 minutes, get ready” is great when both people are teens. If you are a single parent, meeting someone like that is useless. If your date doesn’t realize you do not live alone or, at least, doesn’t want to find a babysitter for the evening, you should forget about this person. Calling you during the night is also not the quality a single parent needs.
Do not hurry to introduce your new dates to kids Introducing your kids to your new date is necessary when you have plans for the future together. If you really consider the person your future spouse, then it’s time to meet your kids. Unfortunately, for children, it is too stressful to see new dates with you all the time. Their mind cannot get why each time, they will have a different mom or dad. Yes, children perceive each new date this way. It is better not to hurry with an introduction.
Consider a babysitter to go out for a date If you always reject having a date because you have no one to leave the kids with, consider a babysitter. If it’s too expensive, ask your parents, siblings, friends, and who else can help you. Remember that those are just excuses. Being a single meet parent isn’t a curse but reward!
Don’t talk about your parenthood all the time When meeting a new date, single parents often talk only about diapers, how they spend time with their kids, show photos of their children, etc. You have other interests apart from your parenthood and your life should not circle around it. It is necessary to tell more about your children but only when you are asked about it. If this is a new person and your first date, spend time getting to know him or her better.
Reject those who do not establish a good connection with your children If your new crush seems to hate children or pretend that he/she doesn’t notice you have yours, it is better to stop talking to such people. If you have already introduced your new date to your kids and you see there is no connection or what’s worse, your kids complain about the behavior, don’t ignore such claims from them. Watch their communication. If you notice this person really hurts your kids, break all connections with him/her.

How to start dating when you are a single parent

Actually, just as well as when you do not have children. The scheme is the same. Nothing changes and you as a single meet parent need the same methods to find someone. Of course, you do not go out that much now. Even if you do, you are most likely always with your lovely kids. Therefore, there are a few alternative ways.

Ask your friends for help

Meeting through your friends has always been the most popular way. It still remains. Tell your friends you are ready to start dating again! Let them arrange a few dates. No worries if they do not work out. You need new emotions, experience, and more confidence. Such dates will give you all that.

Even if all of your friends are married and have kids themselves, they definitely know someone who has single friends. Perfectly, it should be another single parent. You will understand each other much better and have more common topics to discuss. But people who do not raise kids on their own should not be rejected either.

Consider speed dating

Speed dating is great to get someone’s contacts. It is perfect for single meet parents who do not have much time to go out and get to know someone. Spend an hour to see who you may like and exchange your phone numbers. Don’t worry if this didn’t work at once. Try it again. It is one of the best alternatives to casual dating.

Try online dating

Single meet parent websites and apps are one of the best options if you cannot go out but have a chance to be online. Pick serious dating websites like Sofiadate to browse profiles and establish a few connections. When doing it online, everything develops much faster. Give a chance to everyone who wants to get to know you. Don’t reject single meet parent just by their photos or profile descriptions (of course, if they are not 40 years older than you and have very kinky interests). But if in general, everything is fine, give it a chance.

Online dating is very time-efficient. You don’t put in any effort to see who may meet you. Just sign up and browse profiles and send messages. You can do it while your kids sleep, when you are walking out together, or while they are in school. For single meet parents, it is probably one of the best ways to find a decent partner.

About Me

Hi! I'm Annie and I have 3 kids (all in their teens - yikes!). My mommy blog isn't all about lunches and DIY - it's also about humour. Like how my kids make fun of my texts as if I don't know how to use emojis (I DO!). Now that I have a bit more time - since my kids don't want to hang out with me (teenagers), I have taken up blogging.

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